My blog is Raw, Raunchy, Racy & Real. It is what it is. I'm always gonna be me: that say what I want, do what I want, silly, sassy, sexy, coquettish, liberal woman sprinkled with a pinch of conservatism. They call me Carrie Bradshaw with hips & a lil more color. Welcome to Kiss-n-Tell Chantell. Enjoy!
Am I Pro-Black when it comes to Dating?
I’ve recently discovered that I am a discriminatory dater. It has been bought to my attention that I am team chocolate, team caramel and team dark chocolate when it comes to dating. I do love me some black men (their street and professional swagger and rich skin tones) but, I’ve always said that I’m open … Read more
Happy Mother’s Day to My Mama!
I talk about sex, love and relationships often, and today I thought that I would celebrate the one relationship that means the most to me: my relationship with my mother. My mother accepts me flaws and all. She accepts my sexified ways and language, sassy attitude and mood swings. She laughs at the sex advice that … Read more
Would you Put a Ring on your Man’s Finger?
I could never see myself getting down on bended knee, tears in my eyes, voice shaking with fear and overwhelming emotions of love, to propose to any man. It’s not my job, or place, to profess my love and ask for a man’s hand in marriage. As a woman I’m supposed to accept his proposal, … Read more
Blind Dates: Another Dating Disaster or an Unexpected Love Connection
A few weeks ago I went on a blind date. It was a blind lunch date actually. I know what you’re all thinking: Chantell has hit rock bottom. She can’t find a man so she’s resorted to internet love. Soooo not true. I don’t do internet love connections, i.e. Facebook, Twitter or any dating assistance … Read more
Inviting Your Ex To Your Wedding? No Bueno!
I have pretty good relationships with most of my exes: all 3 of them. We’re cordial – know our boundaries – and they know that they don’t have access to my cookie jar. Oh no, not my goodies. As “friendly” as we are, if I were to get married would I invite them to my wedding? … Read more
Women Get Blue Balls Too??!!
Never once have I seen a guys balls turn blue if he got a hard on and didn’t have a sexual release. I know because I’ve asked to see them. Don’t judge me. I’m curious. A little too inquisitive I guess, lol. Ladies I know you’ve heard these oh so famous lines from guys, “Aww baby come on. … Read more
Article Share: “How to Value Your Vagina”
As I was browsing the internet today for sex related topics of course I happened across an article that piqued my interest. The article was written by Miss Solomon on her blog The Dating Truth. In her blog post titled, \”How to Value Your Vagina – Treat it Like a Man Would\” Miss Solomon explores the reasons why women … Read more
Let Me Show You How I Drop It….
I was watching TV the other day and the funniest commercial that I’ve seen in a while made my frickin’ day; I had to share this with you guys. First off “Drop it like it’s hot” will always be one of my favorite songs, I occasionally drop “it,” my booty aka Big Betty, every now … Read more
“Not Tonight Honey. I’m Not in the Mood.”
As high as my sex drive is, there are times when I’m just not in the mood to have sex. In past relationships there were times when I was dead tired or stressed, but “gave in” to having sex with my man when I felt the shoulder tap or his stiffy poke me in the back or … Read more
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